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Sacred Sexual Relationship Contract

  • The Retreat New Forest BH23 7EF Christchurch, England United Kingdom (map)

Sacred Sexual Relationship Contract

A one-day workshop to rewrite the script on love, intimacy, and desire.

Most of us never learned how to build love that feels safe, honest, and free.
This workshop is here to change that — with real tools, deep connection, and embodied truth.

Facilitated by Anja — trauma-informed coach, Tantra teacher, and sacred space holder with 15+ years of experience.

Let’s build love on purpose.

📅 12 July 2025
🕘 10:00–18:00
📍 The Retreat New Forest


What if your relationship didn’t have to follow someone else’s rules?

What if love could be designed — not inherited?

What if sex, trust, and communication could feel safe, open, and fully yours?

Most of us never learned how to build healthy love.
We grew up with silence around intimacy, fear around sex, and confusion about what it actually means to be close.

No one taught us how to talk about desire. Or how to name our needs without shame. Or how to repair after a rupture.

This workshop is about changing that.

Whether you’re in a relationship, in transition, or preparing to meet someone new — this day is your invitation to build love on purpose.


This Workshop Will Help You:

  • Understand what you truly need in love, sex, and connection

  • Let go of inherited patterns that no longer serve you

  • Learn how to talk about boundaries, desire, and emotional safety

  • Create your own Sacred Sexual Relationship Contract — a conscious agreement that reflects your truth

  • Explore what makes intimacy sustainable — emotionally, erotically, and spiritually

  • Leave with more clarity, confidence, and connection in your love life

This isn’t about fixing you.

It’s about giving you the tools to love and relate from a place of clarity, freedom and self-honour.


Who It’s For:

This workshop is open to:

  • Couples who want to deepen, repair, or redefine their connection

  • Conscious singles preparing for love with a clear, empowered foundation

  • Anyone navigating change, confusion, or emotional patterns in relationships

  • Therapists, coaches, and space holders seeking deeper tools

  • Lovers of all identities who want to create conscious, sacred intimacy — their way

No Tantra experience needed. Just curiosity, courage, and a desire for something real.


What To Expect:

  • Full-day immersive guided by Anja

  • A blend of group sharing, individual reflection, and partner/solo exercises

  • Practices from Tantra, somatic coaching, and sacred communication

  • Tools like the Yin/Yang Game, desire rituals, and nervous system co-regulation

  • A guided process to write your own Sacred Sexual Relationship Contract

  • Optional witnessing of your agreement in a sacred closing ritual

You’ll also have:

  • Several short breaks throughout the day

  • A longer lunch break (you’re welcome to bring your own, or purchase lunch from the on-site café)

This is a clothed, non-sexual, trauma-informed space held with deep care and full consent at every step.


What You’ll Walk Away With:

  • A clear framework to communicate your needs, desires, and limits

  • A personalized Sacred Sexual Relationship Contract — yours to evolve

  • More ease in talking about sex, love, and intimacy

  • A deeper sense of sovereignty and self-trust

  • A toolkit for building relationships that actually work — for you


Why This Matters

Because without a conscious framework, love becomes guesswork.
And that leads to confusion, disappointment, and misaligned expectations.

But when you take the time to name what matters — emotionally, sexually, spiritually — you create a container that can hold everything.

That’s what this day is for.


Meet Your Guide

Hi – I’m Anja.

I’m so glad you’re here.

I’m a trauma-informed coach, Tantra teacher, and holistic body therapist with over 15 years of experience supporting people in healing their relationships with love, intimacy, and themselves.

But more than that — I’m someone who’s walked this path.
I know what it’s like to be afraid of closeness, to carry shame in your body, to long for connection and not know how to let it in.

And I know what it takes to change that — gently, powerfully, and on your own terms.

If you join me for this workshop, you won’t just be sitting in a room full of ideas.
You’ll be held, witnessed, and guided through real transformation — with honesty, safety, and care.

Let’s do this work together.
Let’s write a relationship contract that actually reflects who you are, what you need, and how you love.


Investment & Special Launch Pricing

The full value of this workshop is £149, but this is our first-ever edition — so we’re offering it at a special launch price to make it more accessible and celebrate this beginning.

🎟️ Early Bird Tiers:

  • £69 – First 20 tickets

  • £89 – Next 10 tickets

  • £119 – Final discounted price for this edition only

Tickets are limited — once they’re gone, they’re gone.
Future editions will return to full price.

Buy your tickets now


Final Words

This is foundational work.

It’s not about quick fixes. It’s about conscious creation.

Whether you're in a long-term partnership or calling in something new — this is your chance to pause, reflect, and build something sacred from the inside out.

💬 "A relationship is no longer something to fit into. It’s something to build — from your truth."

If your body is saying yes… this is your invitation.

🌹 Let’s write a new story of love — together.

 

FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions

  • Yes. Whether you’re in a relationship or not, this workshop is designed for you. Many participants come solo — and all practices are designed to support both partnered and individual experiences.

  • No. This is a fully clothed, non-sexual, sacred space. Erotic themes are explored through guided reflection, conscious communication, and embodied presence — not physical intimacy.

  • Not at all. Everything is fully guided and trauma-informed. You’ll be supported every step of the way.

  • Absolutely. This space is welcoming to all identities, orientations, and relationship constellations.

  • Completely. This kind of work can feel vulnerable — and that’s okay. The workshop is held with deep care, and nothing is ever forced. Your boundaries will always be respected.

  • You can still come! You’ll create your own relationship contract — and take it home as a powerful tool to share or evolve with your partner later.

  • Just yourself, a notebook or journal, comfortable clothes, and an open heart. Lunch can be brought or purchased at the on-site café.

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