Speak Your Desire
How to share your fantasies and open the door to real intimacy, without shame or fear of rejection.
📅 26 July 2025
🕘 14:00–19:00
📍 The Retreat New Forest
Facilitated by: Anja — Tantra teacher & trauma-informed intimacy coach
Booking essential – limited places
What if your desire didn’t have to stay silent?
So many of us long to feel more alive in our relationships — more open, more seen, more turned on.
But when it comes to speaking our desires, we freeze.
We feel shame. We don’t know how.
Or we’re afraid of what might happen if we really say it out loud.
This workshop is about changing that.
Whether you're in a relationship or navigating your own journey, Speak Your Desire gives you the tools, safety, and confidence to bring your erotic truth into connection — with yourself and others.What if love could be designed — not inherited?
This Workshop Will Help You:
Name your fantasies with confidence, even if they feel edgy or vulnerable
Understand what stops you from speaking desire — and how to move through it
Release shame and fear around your erotic expression
Practise sharing your fantasies in a conscious, supportive structure
Learn how to receive your partner’s fantasies with curiosity (not panic)
Build erotic dialogue that deepens connection instead of breaking it
You’ll also explore the deeper question:
What do my fantasies really reveal about what I long for — emotionally, erotically, spiritually?
🔄 This workshop is a natural follow-up to Sacred Sexual Relationship Contract — designed to deepen the intimacy and communication you began there.
But you don’t need to have attended the first one. If this is the conversation your heart is ready for, you’re welcome here.
Come exactly as you are.
Who It’s For:
This space is open to:
Couples who want to expand, reconnect, or deepen their erotic communication
Singles who want to practise expressing their turn-ons, desires, and edges
Anyone who feels blocked, nervous, or confused about how to talk about sex
Those curious about fantasy as a doorway into self-discovery and intimacy
People who feel they are "too much" or "not enough" sexually — and want to reclaim their voice
All identities, orientations, and relationship styles welcome.
No previous experience needed — just an open mind and willingness to explore.
What To Expect:
A safe, fully clothed, trauma-informed space
A gentle but powerful blend of guided self-inquiry, partner/solo practices, and group learning
Normalisation and release of shame around desire and fantasy
Tools for clear, grounded erotic communication
Language structures for how to speak, soften, and receive
Practices you can take home and keep using in your own relationships
This is a clothed, non-sexual, trauma-informed space held with deep care and full consent at every step.
What You’ll Walk Away With:
A deeper understanding of your erotic self
Confidence in expressing desire, without fear of rejection
Clear tools for bringing fantasy into relationship with care
A sense of relief — “Oh, it’s not just me”
A feeling of connection — to yourself, your truth, and others
This workshop won’t just teach you how to speak your desire —
it will show you that your desire deserves to be heard.
🔄 This workshop is a natural next step after Sacred Sexual Relationship Contract — a foundational experience where you explore the unspoken rules, agreements, and needs shaping your relationships.
If you’ve already attended Sacred Sexual Relationship Contract, this workshop will take your journey even deeper — from rewriting the contract, to speaking the truth it holds.
But you don’t have to attend the first to benefit from this one.
Start where your heart says yes.
Why This Matters
Because silence kills intimacy.
When we can’t talk about what we want, we disconnect — from ourselves, and from the people we love.
But when we dare to name what’s true…
even gently, even messily…
that’s when connection starts to bloom.
And that’s when sex stops being performance — and starts being real.
Meet Your Guide
Hi – I’m Anja.
Hi – I’m Anja. I’m a trauma-informed coach, Tantra teacher, and holistic body therapist with over 15 years of experience supporting people in healing their relationships with love, intimacy, and themselves.
I’ve walked this path myself.
I know the ache of wanting connection but being afraid to speak.
And I know how powerful it is to find your voice — especially when it comes to your desires.
This work has helped hundreds of people feel more free, more seen, more alive.
If you’re ready to explore what’s waiting under your silence — I’d love to guide you.
Let’s speak your desire, together.
🎟️ Tickets – Speak Your Desire
This is a special edition in-person workshop designed to help you open up to your truth, speak your desires, and create deeper connection — without shame or fear.
The full value of this experience is £119, but to celebrate the first-ever edition, we're offering a limited number of launch tickets at reduced prices.
Once each price tier sells out, the next one becomes available.
✨ Single Workshop Tickets – Speak Your Desire
£49 – First 10 tickets
£59 – Next 10 tickets
£69 – Next 10 tickets
£89 – Final discounted tickets for this edition only
(Full future price: £119)
🌹 Want the full experience?
If you’d like to join both of Anja’s transformational workshops:
Sacred Sexual Relationship Contract + Speak Your Desire
— we’ve created a beautiful bundle just for you.
Join both workshops and save up to 50%.
These bundle tickets are ideal for those ready to go deeper. You’ll experience both stages of the journey: Creating sacred relationship agreements and learning to share your fantasies with confidence and care.
💞 Bundle Tickets – Both Workshops
£119 – First 10 bundles
£139 – Next 10 bundles
£159 – Final discounted bundle
(Full value: £249 if purchased separately)
This is your chance to walk a full, powerful journey — from rewriting your relationship blueprint to confidently expressing your erotic truth.
Buy your tickets now
Final Words
Desire doesn’t have to be dangerous.
Fantasy doesn’t have to be hidden.
Your erotic voice is not “too much.” It’s sacred.
Let this be the space where you learn how to share it —
with care, with courage, and maybe even with a little play.
🌹 You’re invited.
Let’s speak the things we were never taught to say.
🌹 Let’s write a new story of love — together.
FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions
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No. This workshop is open to individuals and couples alike. Practices are designed to support both solo and partnered exploration..
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No. This is a fully clothed, non-sexual, sacred space. Erotic themes are explored through guided reflection, conscious communication, and embodied presence — not physical intimacy.
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Not at all. Everything is fully guided and trauma-informed. You’ll be supported every step of the way.
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Yes, absolutely. This is a common and natural response to this kind of work. You will be supported every step of the way — and you never have to do anything you’re not ready for.
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Yes. All gender identities, orientations, and relationship styles are welcome.
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Just yourself, a notebook or journal, comfortable clothes, cushion & blanker or yoga mat, and an open heart.
🌹 Sacred Sexual Relationship Contract
Want to experience the full journey — from rewriting your relationship blueprint to speaking your erotic truth?
Start with Sacred Sexual Relationship Contract — a powerful one-day workshop to:
Let go of unspoken patterns that shape your love life
Create new relational agreements based on truth, clarity, and consent
Explore boundaries, longings, and needs — before desire even enters the room
This is the workshop where your journey begins.
Speak Your Desire is the continuation — but Sacred Contract is the ground beneath it.
✨ Whether you join both workshops or just one, you’re welcome to walk this path in your own way.
But if your body says yes to both — there’s a bundle ticket waiting for you.
👉 Click here to explore Sacred Sexual Relationship Contract